Medical Aid in Dying: What Are We So Afraid Of?

Dave Langlois worries about the consequences of normalizing medical aid in dying, but nonetheless argues that grievously ill patients should be able to ask for, and receive, help in hastening their death.

Someone who is grievously ill, suffering terribly, and at the end of her life should have the legal option to receive medical assistance in hastening her own death. I believe that providing such an option to our fellow Canadians is an important part of respecting each other’s autonomy and I believe that withholding this option can lead to great harm.

This view is quite popular. Recent polls suggest that most Canadians support the legalization of medical aid in dying. And in light of Bill 52 being passed by the Quebec National Assembly yesterday, and ongoing developments in British Columbia, and soon at the Canadian Supreme Court, our legal system may catch up with public opinion.

Still Life with Apples; Paul Cézanne

Still Life with Apples; Paul Cézanne

Still, many people are profoundly uncomfortable with the prospect of physicians aiding patients in hastening their deaths. It is not only active opponents of legal change who are affected by this discomfort: many supporters of the right to die nevertheless struggle with the complexities of the issue. Indeed, despite my own settled conviction that well-regulated medical aid in dying should be legalized, I often find myself grappling with feelings of moral uncertainty and discomfort.

When I reflect on these feelings, I find that they are not rooted in the most common arguments made in opposition of medical aid in dying.

For example, it is often argued that intentionally ending a human life is always wrong, regardless of the circumstances. But I know that my own feelings of discomfort are not based in this thought. When I imagine a close loved one caught in the grip of hopeless and irremediable suffering and asking for help to die on her own terms, I am confident that helping another to die is not always wrong.

A bit differently, it is sometimes argued that, even if in some circumstances it would be permissible to aid another person in dying, assisted death has no place within the medical system. According to this line of reasoning, intentional killing is antithetical to the purpose of medicine, even if the killing is done with the best intentions and in accordance with a patient’s wishes. I am not moved by this argument either. Doctors are precisely the individuals who are best placed to help tragically ill patients in carrying out their wishes and pursuing their best interests, even when this involves the difficult choice to hasten one’s own death. A medical system that ignores the settled and explicit wishes of the ill is a cold one.

Other people argue that legalized medical aid in dying will lead to abuses, including people being coerced and manipulated into “choosing” to die (against their true wishes). However, again, I know that my discomfort is not based in this thought. Peer-reviewed studies of international jurisdictions where assisted dying has been legalized have not found evidence of increased abuses in late-life healthcare. In considering this information, and in reflecting on the many safeguards that can be put in place in Canada, I am confident that our nation could provide choice to the grievously ill without raising the threat of abuse.

These are the three arguments most commonly raised in opposition of medical aid in dying, but they are not responsible for my feelings of discomfort and uncertainty. What, then, lies beneath my feelings?

The answer, in my own case, is that I am uncertain how the normalization of assisted dying might gradually change our nation’s values and priorities. A number of questions jump to mind: What will we—as a society—be like once this option is entrenched in our medical system, and once generations of people have witnessed friends and loved ones act on this option? How differently will we think of death, life, and ourselves? Will we become a more callous people for whom death seems more mundane, or might we become more compassionate? Will we grow quicker to see death as a solution to hardship? Could life begin to seem less special to us or, very differently, might we develop a greater appreciation for the significance of human dignity?

These questions are not arguments against the right to die, but rather an expression of my occasional feelings of discomfort. I suspect that many people who are uncomfortable about the legalization of medical aid in dying—and many people who actively oppose legal change—have questions like these in the back of their minds. I believe we would benefit from bringing these questions to the forefront of our discussions.

Human values and priorities are not formed out of thin air, but neither are they always consciously adopted. How and what we value is often affected by our past choices and by the unforeseen and unforeseeable results of those choices. As we move forward with the legalization of medical aid in dying, and as we begin to see death as a proper subject of human control, we can expect that our values and priorities may subtly change. In the face of uncertainty about how these value developments will look, discomfort is natural.

But it is important not to mistake this discomfort and uncertainty for a reason to deny others control over their bodies and lives. Instead, what we have is reason to renew our commitment to public discourse about ethics, so that we are not passive witnesses to but rather authors of the developments in our values and priorities.


Dave Langlois is a doctoral candidate in the Department of Philosophy at Harvard University.


  1. Heather Martin · · Reply

    Reblogged this on IT'S YOUR LIFE and commented:
    To what end do we attempt to avoid that appointment with death? By what device can we hold back the machine of the cosmos and the dimension of time? We create and take great pride in that creation but fail to honor the cycle…to bring it to close. By denying death, we deny compassion and it is only those who are not knocking at it’s door that dare to say it is an un-natural thing.

  2. Larry Thomas · · Reply

    A thoughtful rumination. I am at the tale end of the journey and having witnessed numerous deaths and contemplating my own, It is my feeling that a more fulsome awareness of death as a normal part of life will make us more respectful of living and death. It’s partly the separation of the stream of life which includes death into life as opposed to death that may be both the source and result of our fear. We live in this web constantly and appreciating that fully, I think will change how we
    view things. Personally, eking out every last minute of consciousness is not my goal. I would be pleased to die before a long stressful, expensive, descent to death. I would much rather the resources that are typically invested in my death be allocated to achieving a compassionate society. Maybe i come to this thinking because the society I live in shares communally health care costs and i feel that contributing to the common well being is more important than me extending my own life. If i am of sound mind and body, I suppose i would not need help. Where it becomes more difficult is if I give a directive that if I am no longer aware of who I am and who my relatives are, that I wish to be assisted to die-as many dementia patients would gladly agree to had they know beforehand the process of their demise. How do i insure that when I am no longer able to exercise my will to die that I am not left trapped in a horrendous limbo, because death is seen as the enemy. Existentially death can happen long before the heart stops beating… thoughts from today.

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